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Christmas Activities for Seniors: Easy Ideas for Home, Assisted Living and Visits

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The best Christmas activities for seniors are usually the simple ones: a carol everyone knows, a plate of cookies, a question that starts a story. This list has 12 easy ideas that cost little or nothing. Some work for a whole activity room in assisted living or a nursing home, some for one quiet afternoon with Mom or Dad, and most can be done sitting down.

Pick two or three. Nobody needs a full program, and an hour that goes well is worth more than a busy schedule.

Before you start

A few things make any activity go better, whatever the setting:

  • Ask what they used to love. A former choir member may light up at carols. A retired baker may want to talk about pie crust, not decorate cookies.
  • Plan for eyes, ears and hands. Large print, a seat close to the speaker and tasks that don't need fine finger work let more people join in.
  • Keep it short. Thirty to forty-five minutes is plenty. Stop while people are still enjoying themselves.
  • In a facility, check with staff first. They know who has a food restriction, who tires easily, and which time of day is best.
  • There is no wrong way to take part. Watching, listening and humming along all count.

1. Read Christmas trivia aloud

Trivia is easy to run for any group size, and it gets people talking. Read a question twice, read the four choices slowly, and let people call out answers. After each answer, share the little story behind it.

We have 25 Christmas trivia questions and answers for seniors on A Christmas Carol, Christmas stockings and Christmas in American history, with a free large print quiz to print. Good for: groups, one-to-one visits, people who like to be the expert.

2. Do a large print word search together

A word search is a calm, quiet activity for one person or two side by side. Large print matters here. Small newspaper puzzles can frustrate anyone whose eyesight has changed.

Our free large print Christmas word search has 15 Christmas tree words on a 13 by 13 grid, with letters about 22 point and an answer page. A light highlighter and a clipboard make it easier. Good for: one-to-one, quiet afternoons, a resident who prefers to keep to themselves.

The Word Search: Around the Christmas Tree page from the Christmas Puzzle Book, blank and ready to fill in. 15 words to find on a 13 by 13 grid, with a box to tick for each one.

A real page from the Christmas Puzzle Book

This is the Word Search: Around the Christmas Tree page from our Christmas Puzzle Book. Print it and do it with a pencil, as many copies as you like for your family.

15 words to find on a 13 by 13 grid, with a box to tick for each one.

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3. Ask "Do you remember?" questions

Questions about Christmases long ago are one of the easiest ways into a good conversation. Ask one at a time and let the answer wander. These come from the conversation pages in our Christmas Puzzle Book:

  • Who usually picked out the Christmas tree in your home, or in a home you often visited?
  • Describe a favorite ornament you remember, and where you think it came from.
  • What cookies or treats were always baked in your kitchen, or a kitchen you loved, at Christmas?
  • Who was usually the first one awake on Christmas morning in the home you remember?
  • Did you ever take an evening drive to look at holiday lights? Describe one.
  • Tell about a department store, five-and-dime, or toy shop that felt magical at Christmas.

Notice how the questions are worded: "a home you often visited," "or a kitchen you loved." Not everyone had a happy family Christmas, so the questions leave room to talk about a neighbor, a grandparent or a friend instead.

A conversation page from the Christmas Puzzle Book titled Do you remember decorating the Christmas tree?, with large print questions and lines to write on
A conversation page from the book. Talk it over, or write the memories down.

If the stories start flowing, write a few down. Our Christmas conversation starters about Christmases past has more questions, and a free printable list. Good for: one-to-one visits, small groups, memory care, the family table.

4. Finish the saying

Read the start of a familiar saying and let the group call out the ending. People who find conversation hard often still know these by heart. A few from the finish-the-saying pages in the book:

  • It is better to give... than to receive
  • It's the thought... that counts
  • Good things come in... small packages
  • There's no time... like the present
  • Home is where... the heart is
  • Come in and make yourself... at home

Good for: groups, memory care, a quick five minutes before lunch.

5. Sing the old carols

Carols are the activity almost everyone can join, even people who no longer talk much. Print the words of two or three in large type: "Silent Night," "Jingle Bells," "Deck the Halls," "Joy to the World." Start with the first verse only, at an easy pace.

A piano or guitar is lovely but not needed. A phone playing a recording works, and so does one confident voice. Good for: groups, memory care, seated or in bed.

6. Decorate cookies, or just taste them

Bake plain sugar cookies at home, or buy them, and bring small bowls of frosting and sprinkles. Plastic knives and spoons are easy to hold. If decorating is too fiddly, set out a tasting plate instead and talk about which cookies everyone's family made.

In a facility, always check with staff about diets first, and label what's in each cookie. Good for: groups, grandchildren visiting, people who like to use their hands.

7. Make a paper chain

Cut strips of red and green paper ahead of time and bring a glue stick or tape. Each link takes a few seconds, and a long chain across a room or a doorway is a shared result everyone can see. Count it down one link a day to Christmas, the old way. Good for: groups, seated, any ability.

8. Tell the story behind an ornament

Ask family members to bring two or three ornaments with a story: the one a child made in second grade, the one from a honeymoon trip. Pass them around and let each person tell theirs. In a group, residents can describe an ornament they remember even if it's long gone. Good for: family visits, small groups.

9. Write and sign Christmas cards

Set up a card table with cards, pens with thick grips and a list of addresses. Some people want to write their own notes; others like to sign their name while someone else writes. Children's cards for residents, or residents' cards for a local school or church, make it a two-way gift. Good for: one-to-one, small groups, people who like to stay in touch.

10. Look at Christmas lights

An evening drive past the brightest houses in town is a favorite for many families. If getting in and out of a car is hard, decorate a window that can be seen from a bed or a favorite chair, or look at photos of the old neighborhood together. Good for: one-to-one, family outings.

11. Read a short Christmas story aloud

Some classics are short enough for one sitting. "A Visit from St. Nicholas," the poem many people call "The Night Before Christmas," takes a few minutes. "The Gift of the Magi" by O. Henry takes about fifteen. Read slowly, and stop to talk if someone wants to. Good for: groups, memory care, bedside visits.

12. Watch a classic Christmas movie

Pick one they already know: It's a Wonderful Life (1946), Miracle on 34th Street (1947) or White Christmas (1954). Turn on the captions, keep the lights a little up, and expect people to talk through the good parts. That is half the fun. Good for: groups, a long winter afternoon.

For memory care

Many of the ideas above suit people living with memory loss, with a few changes:

  • Choose the familiar. Old carols, old sayings and old movies are easier than anything new.
  • Ask open questions, not tests. "Tell me about Christmas morning" works better than "Do you remember what you got in 1952?"
  • Follow their lead. If a question about the tree turns into a story about a dog, that is a good visit.
  • Keep the group small and the room calm. A quiet corner can be easier than a busy party.

Staff know each resident best, so ask them what has worked before.

A large print book for the visits ahead

If you'd like activities ready for a whole season of visits, our Christmas Puzzle Book has 170 large print pages: 30 word searches, 15 crosswords, 15 trivia quizzes with 150 questions, 12 conversation pages with 8 questions each, and 10 finish-the-saying pages with 100 sayings. The answers are at the back.

It is a printable PDF for $7.99, in color, with an ink-saver black-and-white edition in the same download. It's licensed for your own household and the family you help, so it suits a son or daughter, a grandchild or a spouse who brings a few pages along on each visit.

See inside the Christmas Puzzle Book

If you'll be visiting a parent over the holidays anyway, our holiday visit checklist for aging parents covers the quieter things worth noticing while you're there.

These are activity ideas for fun and company. The puzzle book is a printable puzzle and activity book, not a medical or therapy product.